There is very little more attractive, fantastic, and satisfying than being around ladies who have something awaken deep inside them - an excursion, a calling, an adventure. I have been pretty fortunate to expend a great deal of time with robust women - even raised by two who I would do just about anything for - women who have got their own dreams regardless of all of the things they are fed incessantly by our society, battle anyways. They are entirely unique in a world that's trying it's best to training them to be like everybody else. How awesome is that? Above all else, women act as moment by moment integrity checkers for men, oracles even, and if you can surround yourself with a bunch of strong ladies, you will grow unbelievably, have your head lovingly cut off when you aren't being the best man you might be, and you'll experience life itself and its vast selection of experiences. Like the unpredictable ocean they change and shift by the second, intense feelings and thoughts swarm...let that help you in finding your solidity. They are going to test you with their darkest moods and feelings - only to have them feel that you are immovable, the mountain, always going to be there no matter what and firm in your purpose. These are gifts, not hinderances. These relationships create you, but if you really deflate - they will destroy you. Seek them out - don't be threatened, women can move mountains. They are to be cherished.
The dynamics of my life in moving with feminine energy has changed nearly 180 degrees for many reasons. But oh how I have shifted within. In the course of my life, I highly identified with strong feminine energy because I had 2 extremely strong and powerful women in my life - my sister and my mother - who are very driven and talented in what they do. I even had a female dog who was my best friend when I was little and tended to hit it off with ladies better than I did with men. I took the best from my amazing dad as well, equally as driven, thoughtful, creative and motivated and became a product of my environment and nurturing.
As I went through the deep chaos of my younger years, I was "all that changes and shifts. " My moods, my attitudes, my emotions, and thoughts...I have described it many times...were like a tornado within me that refused to give up. Even when it did stop momentarily, back up it would storm again. Blend that with lacking deep purpose after my baseball career ended and a massive mess was made. So I crashed like the sea for a while...and at last found my way to writing.
But recently this dynamic shifted in a big way as the bubbling up of my purpose came to me and I started to read, understand, and practice what powerful masculine energy essentially was. This has not only opened up my world, but has opened up the worlds of the great men who live around me. There's an idea that has entered into my mind that has stuck with me for months now, and it's the inspiring concept of the mountain. That solidity - identifying with what does not and will never change in this world. The undoubtable stability of being completely grounded in your position, a mirror to life itself, empty and prepared to express your deepest passions and purpose - which is the expression of love itself.
When a man eventually begins to understand this idea, I am able to tell you...mountains don't just move in front of him...he becomes the mountain. Whatever occurs around him swirls and yet he is fully calm, snug, and remains rooted in his deepest want. To find your purpose is far more than just what you do for work - it's going to be a direct leader in your life and will deepen your existing relationships your friendships, your family dynamics, and how you show up in this fantastic world. It sure did for me. As fast as this hit - bloom - unfold - open - closing the chasm - joy - honesty - integrity - tenacity through anything.
Women are like the sea. They shift, change, and adjust by the second. In just a moment, a tranquil beautiful ocean can change into a collection of rogue waves. As a man, you are there in your miniscule ship wondering how the heck you are going to climb up that wave before it crests. Women are life itself. They offer, literally, what it suggests to be alive. Why do you really think they call it Mother Nature? Everything that shifts around you is moving energy, a type of power that is uniquely female and can be accessed. But those waves for guys who do not and won't understand what it really means to be the captain of their ship can be rocked straight out of their ship - I can not tell you how often I have been tossed out of my boat or perhaps even bailed before the wave hit. But give a man a purpose, and that wave starts to seem like fun. Moreover, that wave can evoke your deepest purpose.
This is the part that's changed my life completely.
Every day I sit comfortable down and write, I am totally driven by a kind of energy that's very different from anything that I have experienced before. I sit in my small chair outside on my porch...close my eyes, and breathe as deep down into my stomach as I can. I find that density - that solidity - that love - that emptiness. There's this sort of energy that if you focus on it deep enough, it is almost a low frequency lull...that is incredibly deep and potent. A wavelength that really has has existed far before all of us and one that willbe here forever after. I can feel it circulate through me sometimes when I'm on the mat. Then, I open and observe the things that are going on around me or start to run through the days events - tapping into all of the things that adjusted - and get impressed by all of that energy. That energy runs straight through my writing - and yet, all at the same time, I am here, completely grounded in my place - living as if I was already dead.
Fear, in my heart, disappears.
There I solidly am grounded, in my deepest purpose, totally and utterly electrified by the women around me and that amazing feminine energy...creating, loving seriously and open to all uncertainty. It's this dynamic, the one between the male and the female - and my using both - that has taught me more than anything else. This has opened me up, modified my friendships and helped me continue to discover parts of myself that I did not know existed. Floods of people have showed up in my life and I can really see the whole thing morphing, only to know that it'll all change and pass...and that really is perfectly okay.
The dynamics of my life in moving with feminine energy has changed nearly 180 degrees for many reasons. But oh how I have shifted within. In the course of my life, I highly identified with strong feminine energy because I had 2 extremely strong and powerful women in my life - my sister and my mother - who are very driven and talented in what they do. I even had a female dog who was my best friend when I was little and tended to hit it off with ladies better than I did with men. I took the best from my amazing dad as well, equally as driven, thoughtful, creative and motivated and became a product of my environment and nurturing.
As I went through the deep chaos of my younger years, I was "all that changes and shifts. " My moods, my attitudes, my emotions, and thoughts...I have described it many times...were like a tornado within me that refused to give up. Even when it did stop momentarily, back up it would storm again. Blend that with lacking deep purpose after my baseball career ended and a massive mess was made. So I crashed like the sea for a while...and at last found my way to writing.
But recently this dynamic shifted in a big way as the bubbling up of my purpose came to me and I started to read, understand, and practice what powerful masculine energy essentially was. This has not only opened up my world, but has opened up the worlds of the great men who live around me. There's an idea that has entered into my mind that has stuck with me for months now, and it's the inspiring concept of the mountain. That solidity - identifying with what does not and will never change in this world. The undoubtable stability of being completely grounded in your position, a mirror to life itself, empty and prepared to express your deepest passions and purpose - which is the expression of love itself.
When a man eventually begins to understand this idea, I am able to tell you...mountains don't just move in front of him...he becomes the mountain. Whatever occurs around him swirls and yet he is fully calm, snug, and remains rooted in his deepest want. To find your purpose is far more than just what you do for work - it's going to be a direct leader in your life and will deepen your existing relationships your friendships, your family dynamics, and how you show up in this fantastic world. It sure did for me. As fast as this hit - bloom - unfold - open - closing the chasm - joy - honesty - integrity - tenacity through anything.
Women are like the sea. They shift, change, and adjust by the second. In just a moment, a tranquil beautiful ocean can change into a collection of rogue waves. As a man, you are there in your miniscule ship wondering how the heck you are going to climb up that wave before it crests. Women are life itself. They offer, literally, what it suggests to be alive. Why do you really think they call it Mother Nature? Everything that shifts around you is moving energy, a type of power that is uniquely female and can be accessed. But those waves for guys who do not and won't understand what it really means to be the captain of their ship can be rocked straight out of their ship - I can not tell you how often I have been tossed out of my boat or perhaps even bailed before the wave hit. But give a man a purpose, and that wave starts to seem like fun. Moreover, that wave can evoke your deepest purpose.
This is the part that's changed my life completely.
Every day I sit comfortable down and write, I am totally driven by a kind of energy that's very different from anything that I have experienced before. I sit in my small chair outside on my porch...close my eyes, and breathe as deep down into my stomach as I can. I find that density - that solidity - that love - that emptiness. There's this sort of energy that if you focus on it deep enough, it is almost a low frequency lull...that is incredibly deep and potent. A wavelength that really has has existed far before all of us and one that willbe here forever after. I can feel it circulate through me sometimes when I'm on the mat. Then, I open and observe the things that are going on around me or start to run through the days events - tapping into all of the things that adjusted - and get impressed by all of that energy. That energy runs straight through my writing - and yet, all at the same time, I am here, completely grounded in my place - living as if I was already dead.
Fear, in my heart, disappears.
There I solidly am grounded, in my deepest purpose, totally and utterly electrified by the women around me and that amazing feminine energy...creating, loving seriously and open to all uncertainty. It's this dynamic, the one between the male and the female - and my using both - that has taught me more than anything else. This has opened me up, modified my friendships and helped me continue to discover parts of myself that I did not know existed. Floods of people have showed up in my life and I can really see the whole thing morphing, only to know that it'll all change and pass...and that really is perfectly okay.
About the Author:
Evan Sanders is the author of The Words Of Encouragement, a website devoted to spreading positive high-quality content to those who need a little spark and motivation in their lives. In celebration of the amazing women in his life, he developed a post dedicated to strong women quotes to celebrate just how much we can learn from having women in our lives.